a moment of silence

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due to a terrible family tragedy, i will be away for an undetermined time, hopefully brief. please keep my family in your thoughts. i am very grateful in advance for any good karma you can send our way. thanks, friends.

134 thoughts on “a moment of silence”

  3. Anne, I’m sorry for whatever you’re dealing with right now. Of course you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. If there’s anything I can do, please don’t hesitate to ask.

  7. Sending positive thoughts and energy to you and yours as you work through whatever has been thrown in your path.

  10. I’m thinking of you Anne, and hoping you have lots of strength, wisdom and peace.

  15. Oh Anne! Here’s hoping that it will really be nothing and everything will turn out fine. Karma karma karma!

  19. I’m so sorry. If you need someone to get mail or take care of things locally, I’d be happy to help you out.

  23. The evening candle will be lit in your honor tonight. Know that tragedy happens to better appreciate the nuances of life.

  25. I’m so sorry to hear this. I’ll be holding you and your family in my thoughts, and sending all the good energy I can find your way.

  26. I am sorry to hear this news. Please know that you and your family will be in my prayers for strength, patience and peace from our all knowing, all powerful God.

  27. Consider it sent, in droves. Sorry for the troubles – I hope they are only short-lived and things will be okay at your end again. Hugs to you and yours.

  31. Anne, you know I am here if you need anything. Please know you have all of our prayers with you and your family during this time of loss and sorrow.

  34. You and yours are in my thoughts today. May you be wrapped in the warm and comforting arms of love.

  35. Anne, you and your family will be in my prayers! I’m sending hugs and comfort, and hopes for peace through this time of adversity!

  37. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May the love, joy, peace, and all those other good vibes your little corner of the web brings to your many readers come back to you tenfold during this time when you need it most.

  43. Hi Everyone,
    I didn’t know how else to reach everyone other than this way, knowing you will all come here to check up on Anne. I have received several private email regarding concerns for Anne. I have talked to her and asked what I could comfortably talk to you all about. Please know that Anne WILL be contacting all of you over time. There has been a loss in Anne’s family, she has lost her brother. Please pray for Anne’s family, Anne and her brother. This is a VERY emotional time for Anne and she needs all of our strength. She will be gone as long as she needs to be for her family of course. I know she did see some of your comments very quickly and she was so touched so please, I encourage you to come back and post often, if only to send her daily comfort.We all know how staying a bit busy in these times can be oddly consoling.
    Anne, we love you and are wishing a safe trio to and fro. May your brother’s journey in his next life be easier than this one. Peace and blessings.

    Debbie …………P.S. I will also be posting on my blog updates for all you you but I know only a few people actually go to mine, which is why I did this here.

  44. Anne, I have been thinking of you often lately, as I am knitting away on my Rococo socks. I will be knitting prayers with every stitch on the second sock. Be well.

  45. oh dear no! what a loss…and apparently sudden as you mentioned a tragedy….dear dear one know that we are with you and all that good karma you have sent out in your blog is now streaming back to you and will be here for you when you need it.

    i will keep you and your family in my prayers for as long as you need.

  46. Anne, I am sending you and your family healing and solacing energy.

    May it help you carry the tragedy you and your family are going through.

    Much Love…

  47. Anne, I’m keeping you and yours in my thoughts and prayers! I hope that whatever it is, you can find some peace and solace.

  48. Anne-I am so sorry….life can be so unbelievably difficult at times. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  50. Anne,
    My deepest sympathies on the loss of your brother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My special prayer for you is that you will find peace and comfort in the strength and love of your family in these dark times. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts.
    -Kate

  52. Anne,

    Mark and I are praying for you and your family. Please let us know if there is anything that we can do for you or help you with.

  53. My deepest sympathies for your loss. I am sending you many thoughts waves, hugs and prayers to you and your family and hope that you can find some peace and comfort knowing he is at peace now.

  64. Oh Anne, I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. I will be thinking of you during this difficult time.
    xoxo

  70. I’m so sorry to hear that you and your family are having to deal with tragedy. My thoughts are with you.

  72. Hi Everyone,

    I am writing on an update for all of you and because I still am not sure where to put these so that all of you will see it, I am putting it in Anne’s comments in hopes you’ll check back here often.

    I am setting up a Benevolent Fund for Anne’s family to help deffer any funeral costs. I am not asking for you to donate and please do not feel that you must, this is solely for those who wish to send cards, donations, flowers ect..

    The funeral service for Anne’s brother is at the following address…

    McVeigh Funeral Home Inc
    208 N Allen St
    Albany, NY 12206

    (518) 489-0188
    You can send any wishes, ect. to this address for the Hanson funeral which will be held this Friday.
    I am sure Anne can feel all your thoughts and prayers and I think it goes without saying that she is greatful for all of you and your thoughts. For those who wish to send cards ect to Anne not through the funeral home, I am going to give my personal address and you can send it to me and I promise you, I will get any and all items that are sent here , to her as soon as she comes home. I just am not very comfortable giving out Anne’s address without asking her permission first and I am just not sure when she is coming home first of all and secondly, when she does, I am sure she will be not only very tired but she probably isn’t going to have alot of energy to do a lot and I would like to try and have things organized for her already. To be honest with all of you, I feel very very bad for Anne and her family and I am not sure WHAT to do for her so I am doing whatever comes into my head to try and help so if it comes out a bit silly and poorly orchestrated, I am very sorry but I am not sure how to do this type of thing.

    Here is my address: Anne Hanson
    c/o
    Debbie Jusi
    2414 Pennington St Nw
    Canton, Ohio
    44709

    Again, thank all of you for your prayers and warm wishes on behalf of Anne, I just know she is so overwhelmed by all of your love and support….
    I will post more when I know more.

  73. oops. P.S. I’m sorry everyone but I forgot to add that please know I will NOT be opening any of the mail sent to me, it is addressed to Anne and for her, I will just collect it….I wasn’t sure if anyone would think I would open it up or anything, I just wanted you all to know that it will be private for her.

  74. I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. there are no words that can make it right. I only know you through you website but I am praying for you and your family in this difficult time.

  77. Anne, I’ve never commented here before, but I read. I am thinking of you and your family, and though nothing I can say will make it better, please know that people around the world are thinking of you and yours.

  78. Dear Anne,

    I am so sorry that your family is suffering. Please know that you and yours are in my thoughts and prayers.

  79. Anne, I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that you & your family are being held close in so many people’s hearts right now.

  81. Hi Everyone,

    Sorry, there is apperhantly a miscommunication with the funeral home and myself. Beckie (not sure if she has a blog, geesh, how silly am I for not knowing that..) anyways, Beckie is also a very good friend of Anne’s and she used to have fiber crack *wink* (gorgeous fiber) but she contacted the funerla home and asked some questions about flowers and stuff and they told her that it would be better to mail donations to the mother (or in this case Anne) instead of the funeral home….but this was AFTER they talked to me last night and said yes, go ahead and post their address and so people can send not only condolences,flowers and/or any monetary donations…..sooooo again, because I do NOT want to post Anne’s personal mailing address and also, she is not there, I will again state that you can send anything to my address and I will get it to her asap. Also, it still remains the same, please know I will not open anything, it all remains private, for Anne’s eyes only. You could also feel free to wait for her to come home and ask her if you could send cards and stuff directly to her and ask her for her address. Again, I just don’t want to give her address out without permission.
    Thank you Beckie for helping take care of this. I am so happy to be part of this community, I can’t tell you how much I feel for all of you, your all so fantastic and I know Anne can feel your love and prayers.
    Thanks ya’ll,
    Debbie

  87. Oh Anne, I will absolutely keep you and your family in my thoughts. I wish I hadn’t fallen behind in my blog-reading, so I would have known about this sooner! Knit for sanity if you can, and be well.

  88. I am so sorry about your loss, Anne. I, and all of us here are thinking of you.

  89. So sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are utmost in my thoughts and prayers. Know we are all gathered around you and holding on. Love and prayers Pat

  91. Hi Again Everyone.

    I just wanted to give ya an update and save you the pain of having to track it down via my blog LOL. I talked to Anne last night and she is doing well, as well as can be expected in this difficult time. She is so touched by all of your wishes and prayers, and believe me, she really IS touched by it. You all are so great and your so amazing, I knew it before but I know it now too..The outpouring is amazing. Anne wanted me to let anyone know this,,,,I talked to her about the monetary donations and she wants you all to know, please don’t feel like you have to do that but if you want to, there is a charity listed in the obituary (I left a link for you all in the above post) and she is very impressed with it and said to please send your donations there. It is a worthy center that does ALOT of good within the community…..but also, again, please don’t feel like you have to do ANY of that.
    I will continue to keep ya’ll posted and updated with minimal hoopla from me 😉
    Keep your prayers and well wishes for Anne and her family during this very difficult time.

    Debbie

  92. Anne, Thinking of you and your family throughout the day again today and in the days to come. Prayers and healing thoughts coming your way.

  93. Oh Anne, I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you and your family are getting through this difficult time OK. I’m sending loads of good karma and comforting thoughts your way. Hang in there and be strong.

  94. I wasn’t reading blogs for a few days, so I just got here to see this. I’m thinking about you and your family and sending all the good energy your way.

  97. i couldn’t find a link… here is the obit in full

    Hanson, John P.
    Hanson, John P. SCHENECTADY John P. Hanson, 43, died suddenly Friday, March 2, 2007 at home. Born in Schenectady, he was the beloved son of Suzanne Bottari Hanson and the late Joseph L. Hanson Jr. John was a 1981 graduate of Notre Dame-Bishop Gibbons High School and 2003 graduate of Union College. He was employed at the Schenectady County Public Library. He was the dear brother of Michael (Mun) Hanson of Hawaii, Anne Hanson (David Whitfield) of Canton, Ohio, Helen Hanson (Krishna Govindarajan) of Medford, Mass. and Joseph Hanson III (Deborah) of Cedar Park, Texas. John is survived by several aunts, uncles, cousins, and 10 nieces and nephews. Funeral services Friday at 9:15 a.m. from the McVeigh Funeral Home, 208 North Allen Street, Albany thence to St. Madeleine Sophie Church at 10:00 a.m. where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated. Relatives and friends are invited and may call Thursday, 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. in the funeral home. Interment will follow the Mass in St. Agnes Cemetery, Menands. Those wishing to remember John in a special way may send a contribution to the charity fund of St. Madeleine Sophie Church, 3500 Carman Road, Schenectady, NY 12303 or Christ Guild Society, c/o St. Madeleine Sophie Church.

    and here its the paper link

    http://www.legacy.com/TimesUnion-Albany/Obituaries.asp
    then search for John Hanson.

    You can sign a guestbook there too.

  100. Oh my good ness, Anne. I’m so sorry to hear about your brother’s loss. ((((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))) to you. Please know that your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. My heart just goes out to you.

  101. Anne,
    I ordered your delicato mitts pattern from a post back in January that I had tagged in delicious. I was coming to your main page to get your email to ask what had happened to my order–then I found your most recent post. I think I must have ordered the pattern the very day your announced your absence. You have my deepest sympathy for the loss of your brother. And it appears you have a very loving, supportive community of friends to help you through a trying time.

  102. Hi All,

    I just wanted to keep you posted. I talked to Anne last night and she is doing well. She again thanks all of you for your prayers and all of your support. It continues to amaze and touch her. The calling hours were yesterday and as you may expect, Anne was very tired. The emotional strain is understandable. She thanks all of those who sent wishes to the service, it was very touching. I will continue to update you all and let me add, you are all very dear friends.

    **JENNIFER*** If you want to email me privately, I can scan and send you a copy of the delicato mitts so that you have it and when Anne comes back, she can take care of the rest, at least this way you would have something. My email is debbiejusi@yahoo.com

    Hugs to all of you and remember, if it doesn’t move..KNIT IT!!

    Debbie

  103. Here’s to brighter days ahead, Anne. I hope they come much sooner than later for you and your family, but keep faith that they’ll come.

  105. Anne,I am so sorry to hear your family is having troubles. I will pray for you and your family. God is good; He can heal broken hearts. Love to all…

  106. I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. I’m praying that a spirit of comfort and hope will surround you as you grieve. With love, Julia

  107. Anne,
    Rich and I continue to remember you and your family. Please let us know if there is anything either of us can do to help.

    Beth

  108. Anne – I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Losing someone close is always a terrible blow, especially when unexpected. Know that like everyone else here, I am holding you and yours in my thoughts and heart.

  110. That’s sad news. We’re here when you’re ready. There seems to be disproportionate amount of sadness and loss among friends lately. I hope spring brings peace and sunlight soon. My best thoughts for you and your family.

  113. You have been in my thoughts and prayers for a week now. My heart breaks for you. I hope the warmth of the spring sun brings you some comfort.

  114. I’ve been away and this is my first time by since you posted this. You and your family are in my prayers and I hope that you find peace in comfort to see you through. God Bless you all.

  115. Anne, I was saddened to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

  117. Hi, you don’t know me, I stumbled into your blog and felt the need to say that you and your family are in my prayers.

  118. Anne– I’ve been gone for a bit, and I just came back to find out your terrible news. I am so, so sorry about the loss of your brother. The world probably seems like a large and terrible place to you right now, but I just want you to know that there is still joy if you care to look for it. I find it every time I come here to read your blog. Your presence here makes the world a kinder, friendlier, and happier place. I hope that all of our thoughts and words may do the same thing for you, even if it is in a small way.

    You and your family are in my thoughts.

  121. I am so sorry to read of your tragedy. I hope you and family can find some solace in happy memories.

  122. I just read about your tragedy. I, too, lost my little brother. He died at the age of 30 from an aneurysm. The pain is so intense and deep and I feel so bad for you and your entire family. Take the time you need and take care of yourself and your family. We’ll all be here waiting.

  123. I wish I had something poetic and comforting to say, but it’s never just right. I hope you’re well and healing.

  124. Anne, dearest Anne,I’m away from home and have only just read your posting. All my strongest thoughts and support are with you and my arms around you. Love and hugs to help you breathe during this time.

  126. You are in my thoughts. I just lost my mom and it is so hard. If you need anything at all, please don’t hesitate to ask!

  127. I just found your blog following a link to the exquisite, oh so feminine moth shawl and read your posting from earlier this month. I will be sending you warm, loving, supportive thoughts. Following is a quote by Oscar Wilde. I came across it listening to Episode 21: Secret Water from the Cast On podcast. This particular episode is a warm and somewhat bittersweet one about loss.

    Where there is sorrow, there is holy ground.
    Oscar Wilde

  128. Anne, I’m not sure when you’ll be up to getting these messages or when you’ll be getting home, but I wanted to let you know that I’ve been thinking about you and praying for you and your family. I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. I’ve been checking in here and on Debbieknitter’s blog too. I know right now you are numb, but try to remember to take care of yourself. I think everyone who faithfully reads your blog misses you, and I for one send you warm comforting thoughts of peace during this time. I’ll continue to check in here and keep you in my thoughts. Danielle

  129. In my thoughts and prayers. We all miss you so much and want you to know how much we all care Please let us know if there is anything we can do. Pat

  131. Anne, I just saw these comments. I’m sorry for your loss. Peace of heart and mind to all of you.

  132. Anne, I’m so sorry to hear about your terrible loss. I’ve been a reader for a few months and I guess this is the reason you’ve been on my mind. I finally caught up with your blog today.

    Anyway, please take care of yourself and my thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Jen

  133. Anne, as you may or may not know, my family suffered a similar loss some time ago. At the time, I was surprised how much this poem someone left in my comments helped me. I give it to you now, hoping that it eases your pain, as it eased mine.

    I am standing upon the sea shore.
    A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the
    morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean.
    She is an object of beauty and strength.
    I stand and watch her until at length she hangs
    like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.

    Then someone at my side says; “There, she is gone! â€? “Gone where? â€? Gone from my sight.
    That is all.
    She is just as large in mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side and she is just as able to bear her load of living freight to her destined port.

    Her diminished size is in me, not in her.
    And just at that moment when someone at my side says, “There, she is gone! â€?
    There are other eyes watching her and other voices ready to take up the glad shout,
    “Here she comes! â€?

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