the man with a plan

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oh, it’s been a lovely weekend . . . even though yesterday and today were a bit rainy (light, spring rain, nothing major), this afternoon and evening turned glowingly sunny. the return on the much-needed rain was plentiful—the trees are leafing-out like crazy and the plants look like they grew 6 inches over the last few days. the white pear trees are blooming, which is wreaking havoc with my allergies, but who can care?

this is the time when i could sit on my bench out back and literally watch the hostas grow.
heh, maybe i should do that for while tomorrow . . i could take my knitting and my camera out there—kinda like a hosta cam. with no bugs yet, it could be really, really nice. if you are bent that way, that is.

the rain kept me inside all day yesterday and this morning which meant lots of knitting and cooking. i turned these

into this—a spicy/tangy version of pasta é fagiole with rapini and puree of roasted peppers.

i started making this modification of the classic italian soup some years ago and we have loved it ever since. even my gram gave it her stamp of approval; she enjoyed it when i cooked it for her (another way to eat our favorite bitter greens, yay).

and of course there has also been knitting. this morning i turned this

into this while listening to the last of the newest philip roth book.

i’m liking it a lot better than i did in the first photo now, or even in my swatches. you don’t really see how pretty the overall stitch is until you get a decent length of fabric knit; it has a lot of dimension this stitch (which is why i like it). it would have even more depth if i were using a plied yarn, but this yarn has enough. and that colorway—it is truly the color of the twilight sky. my favorite time of day in summer.

then last night i got halfway down the foot of my second sock de la mer

and i think i might be able to finish it tonight, woo-hoo.
i’ve been working on my little nothing scarf, though not with the intensity i could be

i’m about a third of the way along and i think i will work more on that tonight, having put in a good day on the shawl.

i found an exciting development in the yard today (ok, maybe you don’t need to sit down or anything, but i found it exciting). let me just preface this story by saying that i love hydrangeas. in fact, when we (and by we, i mean david) tore out the nasty old scraggly hedge out front, we replaced it with a row of hydrangeas that are supposed to each grow to a six-foot diameter.

right—when pigs fly (that was a good three years ago)—but i digress. we have actually planted a number of varieties nearer the house, too. that way, once my other favorite, the tulips, are gone for the year, we have hydrangeas, which are really good.

so, we’ve been growing this one climbing hydrangea ever since we moved here; we bought it our first spring when it was just a slip of a thing.

the label on the plant promised that in no time it would be “scrambling up a tree or trellis and offer profuse blooms”.
well, we’ve been patient and all, and it has grown a lot

indeed, i think it is the main reason that trellis is still standing. but seriously, we have NOT see “profuse” blooms. we have not seen any blooms.
however, if i’m not mistaken, that is all about to change

we have a bud. a big fat juicy one, too. i’m unreasonably pleased. so far i see only one other one, but maybe there will be more.

ok, so i bet you’re wondering how that title fits in with this post so far, eh? do you want to hear something really REALLY romantic?? i bet you do.

you probably know by now that david is a very quiet man, and that we are crazy about each other (well, i’m probably just crazy, but we like each other a lot anyway). he doesn’t make a big show of doing anything, especially nice things—he just does them.

so anyway (seemingly unrelated thought coming up, but give me a minute), last fall during cleanup, he placed a spare paving stone that had been hanging around the garage for a while against the side of my dye bed. and there is stayed. i was a little concerned that it stayed there so long, because i thought it would kill the “grass”. but i kept forgetting to ask david to move it.

then today while i was out there photographing those spectacular tulips he has planted all over the place (because i like them), i notice out of the corner of my lens a juxtaposition that made my heart stop

he put it there especially for me, as a placard . . . and planted tulips nearby so that all these months later, i would discover this little shrine to us. how much do we love him??

64 thoughts on “the man with a plan

  1. I don’t know how long ago you planted the climbing hydranga, but they need a minimum of 3 years to get their root system established, another 2 years to get the above ground growth really going. After that they grow much faster and you will get more and more blossoms each year. Mine is now 7 or 8 years old and finally looks great. Love the swatches, flowers and tribute to love.

  2. Oh, WOW! What a thoughtful and kind thing to do! And all this time he’s been waiting to be able to go “heh!” out loud. What a sweetie.

  3. What an incredibly sweet man with incredibly sweet flowers. I’m also loving that incredibly sweet lace. 🙂

  4. How thoughtful and wonderful! The blue shawl and socks are beautiful. When I grow up I want to knit like you! Okay, so I’d settle for half of your speed and talent. I’ve never heard of a climbing hydrangea before, how neat.

  5. What a beautiful and romantic gesture! It’s the quiet, small things like that that really make my heart stop. I can only hope to find someone as sweet as that some day!

    Your hydrangea is looking promising. The biggest, brightest blooms on my mother’s hydrangea bushes always come out of buds that look just like that… swollen to the point of bursting. Can’t wait to see pictures! Your garden makes me hope I have a green thumb!

  6. Climbing hydrangeas take a while, meaning years. Yours looks good.

    And David – well, David is a sweetheart. I don’t suppose he has any unattached brothers, does he?

  7. Hi Anne! Your garden is looking absolutely beautiful. You definitely picked a keeper with David and so sweet and caring. I have the spanish version of David at home and love spending time with him. This year will be our 25th wedding anniversary! I also your pasta dish – – would you mind sharing your recipe?? I love pasta fagiole and been meaning to learn how to make it and yours looks absolutely delish. Your knitting is looking wonderful as always. Take care! Rosalia

  8. What a fantastic man. I’m so jealous! It gives all us single gals hope that there may still be decent men out there.

    PS: You really should start a recipe blog as well!

  9. It’s nice to have confirmation that there are really good, decent men out there who aren’t afraid to show they care. I have one, too! He cooks, he cleans house, he grocery shops!!! And he’s a nurse by profession so can take care of me when I’m struck down! They are truly blessings!!!
    Anne – I’m rather new to lace knitting and would love to try one of your shawl patterns. Can you recommend one for a knitter who, though has knit lots for a long time, hasn’t done much lace? They are all so beautiful, but feel a little overwhelming to me.
    Thanks for sharing your life with us – I read regularly – it always cheers me!

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